Guides

Wedding photography guides

Written for couples, with a bias toward what actually happens on the day rather than what looks good on a checklist. No email wall, no upsell in the middle.

Guide · 9 min read

Wedding shot list

How to write a wedding shot list your photographer can use: how long it should be, what to include, what to cut, and the mistakes that cost photos.

Guide · 8 min read

Family formals

How to order your wedding family photos so they take 25 minutes instead of an hour. The peel-away method, a copyable list, and how to handle step-families.

Guide · 7 min read

Must-have photos

Surveys and hindsight agree on which wedding photos people wish they had. It isn't the ring shot. Here's what's actually worth protecting on your list.

Guide · 8 min read

Photography timeline

A realistic wedding photography timeline with honest time estimates for getting ready, first look, formals, and portraits — and where timelines break.

Guide · 7 min read

Working with your photographer

What wedding photographers actually want from couples, what to send and when, and the requests that quietly make their job harder.

Guide · 6 min read

Divorced parents

How to plan wedding family photos when parents are divorced, remarried, or estranged — what to decide in advance and how to tell your photographer.

Guide · 6 min read

For photographers

How to get specific, ranked, usable shot lists from wedding couples — what to ask for, when to ask, and how to make family formals faster.

Guide · 5 min read

Do I need a shot list?

Yes, and your photographer will probably ask for one. Theirs covers the standard moments. Yours covers the things they have no way of knowing.

Guide · 6 min read

Family formals (photographers)

How to run wedding family formals in twenty minutes instead of forty: the list, the wrangler, the shooting order, and the four failures that cost the time.

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